Friluftsliv* and Fellowship: Meaningful Moments
13th April 2025
*Friluftsliv; a handy word meaning open-air living, capturing the Scandinavian approach to living life in harmony in nature.
The walk seems typical of the Norwegian approach to getting outdoors. The group meet every week, all year round and in all weathers. If its wet, you bring waterproofs and if its snowy, put grips on your boots, there is no reason to stay at home. I’m told numbers stay stable through the year, (while on Get Out More’s programmes for adults, we see a drop off of participation if its cold or wet, even if the session is mainly inside). The age group ranges from 60’s – 80’s and people come as long as they feel able, continuing a passion for spending time outdoors that probably began when they were in kindgergarden. It’s made possible because Karina Sylling from Frivilligsentral spent the day before contacting the families, reminding everyone of the arrangements and organising transport and the local volunteers, one for every two people living with dementia in the group. What happens when you don’t get enough volunteers? I asked. It never happens, was the reply. They often have more than they need! Volunteers love to take part in the walking programme and it is seen as vital for everyone’s wellbeing, not least families and carers, who don’t come on the walks, but enjoy some time to themselves while their loved ones are out for the day.
At Carpe Diem, an innovative nursing home near Olso, I met Harold Reid Waugh, who works for the Bærum municipality. Harold explained how they aim to ‘create meaningful content in everyday life, with culture, activities, mastery and fellowship‘ for their senior citizens. Fot the past few years they have been collaborating with voluntary sector organisations and corporate volunteers to create meaningful community experiences such as their summer beach festivals, which bring together the generations for music, cake, sausage grilling and dancing. Whilst the vagaries of Norwegian weather have not always been on their side, they know that these events create talking points; one year it rained so hard they had to take the party to an aircraft hanger, another year the shelter in which everyone was sheltering blew away, but the older residents like to joke about how they had ‘survived’ the day! Not satisfied with just the summer events, they went for a vinter aktivitetsdag (winter activity day) too.
In Norway, as I am frequently told, ‘Det finnes ikke dårlig være, bare dårlig klære.’
(There is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes – note, it rhymes in Norwegian),
I like this approach to outdoor experiences for older people; adventures are enabled to continue, not put aside once old age creeps up on you. There is an expectation that we can be outdoors whatever the weather, because solutions can be found to the problems of rain, wind and snow and if it goes wrong, well that’s just something to laugh about later (see Rainer Newberry’s Type 2 fun). I feel we need to do more to more to enable nature-based activities for seniors in the UK, based around their lived experiences. If not snowmobiles, ski jumps and shooting, then gardening, fishing and bird watching, the things today’s generation of older people have grown up with. I admire the Norwegian can-do attitude and the desire to enable meaningful outdoor experiences for older people, regardless of age and ability. Whether or not these can be meaningful memories, does not matter, the point is to enjoy the adventure in the moment.
“Families tell us their loved one is so happy when they get home. They don’t always remember where they’ve been, but they know they had a good time.”
Karina, Frivilligsentral, Bærum